I'd love to go around kicking them in the gonads. I'm a professional martial artist -- I love kicking things.

I also have a lot of pent up anger against the bad boys/man-children of the Earth. Dating back into my teens, I've longed for the nice girl, and even been open about my feelings for her. I think of High School and College now. But her eye was often on the bad boy, the "artist", or the man-child, and a woman's lust is the most powerful force on the face of this Earth. You're swimming against the torrent in that situation.

Sadly, these same men still have no trouble attracting women into their thirties, with the same ruinous consequences for their female partners.

I've had the good fortune of knowing two of these men (the bad-boy and "artist") in their mid to late 30's. If it is any consolation, they often feel trapped by their own behaviour, unable to change as that is the only game they know, yet unable to form a committed relationship based on love and family.

So as much as I'd love to go around kicking these men (before they reach the age where the errors of their ways becomes apparent), I learned that women just have to make their own choices in romance, just as much as men have to choose the right woman for them.

Feel free to rant abot the misguided men who choose the bad woman.